Like many people, I did what I thought was the right thing. I hired a well-known, established law firm and had them draft what I believed was a strong, enforceable prenuptial agreement.
The case is now on appeal. But the experience changed how I approach this work forever.











They are practical planning tools that can help couples:
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I know what it feels like to rely on an agreement—and then have it challenged.
That perspective informs every agreement I draft.
If you’re considering a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement, I’m happy to talk through your goals and help you do it the right way from the start.
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A prenuptial agreement, commonly known as a “prenup,” is a legal contract entered into before marriage that outlines how assets, debts, property, and financial responsibilities will be handled if the marriage ends in divorce or separation.
For many couples, a prenup provides financial clarity and peace of mind before entering marriage.
A prenuptial agreement may help protect:
“A well-drafted prenuptial agreement is not about planning for divorce — it is about creating financial transparency and protecting both parties before marriage.”
A postnuptial agreement, or “postnup,” is similar to a prenup, except it is created after the marriage has already taken place.
Couples may choose a postnuptial agreement for many reasons, including:
In many situations, postnuptial agreements help couples resolve uncertainty and strengthen financial communication within the marriage.
Yes. Both New York and New Jersey generally enforce prenuptial agreements when they are properly drafted and executed under state law.
To be considered valid, prenups typically must be:
A properly prepared agreement can help reduce future disputes involving:
However, courts may refuse to enforce agreements that involve fraud, coercion, lack of financial disclosure, or significant unfairness.
Absolutely.
Business owners frequently use prenuptial agreements to protect:
Without a valid agreement, a business may become subject to complex division issues during divorce proceedings.
Yes. Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can often include provisions regarding:
However, courts may still review these provisions to determine whether they are fair and enforceable at the time of enforcement.
Generally, no.
Courts in both New York and New Jersey determine child custody and child support based on the best interests of the child at the time of separation or divorce.
Because circumstances involving children can change over time, courts typically do not enforce prenup provisions attempting to predetermine:
While separate legal representation is not always legally required, it is strongly recommended.
Independent counsel helps ensure:
“Having independent legal representation can greatly strengthen the enforceability of a marital agreement.”
Ideally, couples should begin discussing a prenuptial agreement several months before the wedding date.
Waiting until the last minute may create claims of:
Early preparation allows both parties sufficient time to review, negotiate, and finalize the agreement properly.
Yes.
After marriage, spouses may:
Any modifications should be completed in writing and executed according to applicable legal requirements.
Every relationship and financial situation is unique. A carefully drafted agreement should be customized to address your specific concerns and long-term goals.
Robert assists clients throughout Nassau County, New York, and New Jersey with:
A properly structured agreement can provide clarity, reduce conflict, and protect your financial future.